Its apart of my life so fuck it lol

I've been super horny lately and I can tell that D is also but we just don't do anything together, it'll probably be like 2 weeks before we even touch one another. I hate it because we used to be so passionate and man the sex was GREAT, but over time it just started feeling like a chore or something that is to messy and overworking that we disregard it. I'm pretty sure our life together would be much better if we were as passionate as we once were. It sucks that the only time the sex is great is when we break up and get back together, I want the passion back and have that romance. Now we just bust one off while the other is busy with something else and call it a day. I like attention like that, call me shallow but it makes me feel sexy and lately I haven't gotten any of that attn from D. I don't feel like its very respectful to tell D but I just wish he was back into shape like he was, I was way more attracted to him when he was fit. Not just because he was fit but because he had more energy which made the sex Motha Fuckin AMAZING!!! But he always says that he doesn't have the time or is always tired from work, truth is that is all a lie because he just doesn't want to spend the energy into getting ready and going to work out and he also says that he doesn't want me to be there while he works out because it makes him feel weird like I'm judging him. IDK what to tell him but I'm concerned about his health if he keeps gaining weight like he is, I just want him to be healthy and happy like we used to be. That still doesn't help my hornyness lol, oh well guess I just have to deal with it or just put it out of mind :(